Comfortable life

What strategies do you use to increase comfort in your daily life?

Surprise! Surprise! Another prompt I have not attempted!

My grandmother was short. It was my mom who pointed out to me how well she had made the kitchen comfortable for her. The sink, the countertop and the shelves were low. She constantly had people coming and working for her in the bathroom or the yard to make her mobility better. Growing up I didn’t understand what she was doing. But now I understand. She was creating a comfortable living space.

My kitchen is a standard American kitchen. I took my grandmother’s genes and I am short! Voila! I can’t reach anything in my kitchen. Ha ha, the sink is deep and my shelves are high. The stove is tall amd the countertops not to my comfort! I carry a step stool or a chair around the kitchen.

The bedroom wardrobe/closets are a different story. I gave to the top shelves to my husband and kept the lower to myself. The arrangement is not comfortable but I am surviving 😀!

I would love to be my grandma changing things often. But labor or materials are not cheap and I do not have a handyman who would listen to everything. Vel was her handyman and I would say she was lucky to have him!

Recently we did change our tub into a walk in shower! Finally a project long overdue. Who has time to soak in a tub! It was not a project planned but it happened. Now I am not doing gymnastics to get a shower. I walk in and walk out. A breeze.

Anyhow I dominate the living room television and sofa. I consider that as my comfort zone. No strategy just enjoying what is available!

7 responses to “Comfortable life”

  1. What a wonderful story Ganga—and what a gift your grandmother passed down without even saying a word! She didn’t just modify a kitchen; she taught you that comfort is an act of self-respect and foresight. It’s so easy to dismiss small daily annoyances, but she proved that adjusting your environment now saves you energy for the things that actually matter later.

    I absolutely feel you on the kitchen struggles! There’s something almost comical about being short in a world built for taller folks—the step stool becomes less of a tool and more of an appendage. But honestly? That daily little “climb” is a tiny workout, so you’re multitasking! And I love the closet compromise with your husband—sometimes “surviving” is just “strategic prioritizing,” and you chose the lower ground for victory.

    The walk-in shower? Chef’s kiss. That’s not just comfort; that’s a lifestyle upgrade! Going from gymnastics to a breezy walk-in sounds like pure freedom. You may not have a “Vel,” but you have your own persistence to finally get that project done, and that deserves a round of applause.

    And let’s be real—dominating the TV and sofa isn’t a lack of strategy; it’s the ultimate strategy! Claiming your space unapologetically and enjoying what’s available is exactly what comfort is all about. No renovation needed for that throne.

    You’re doing a beautiful job balancing inherited wisdom with your own practical tweaks. Keep that step stool handy, keep claiming that sofa, and give yourself credit—you’re making your world more comfortable one small (or walk-in!) step at a time. 😊

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  2. Finding ways to adjust our environment for comfort is also a great analogy for special needs caregiving and the tweaks we make for our children!

    The living room and TV are claimed in our house by T and the hubby. 🤣

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    1. The house is completely customized for my son but the TV and sofa are mine 🤣!

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  3. I had a smile on my face all the way through especially the living room victory at the end! 😄📺

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  4. I can well imagine.

    My brother-in-law is tall and we sisters are of standard height.

    Reaching up to the towel in the bathroom is an exercise for me whenever I stay with them.

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