Our success story

When you think of the word “successful,” who’s the first person that comes to mind and why?

Suceess varies with individual. When my young man was an eight year old he couldn’t catch a ball. He was just a target of the ball flying at him. Let alone getting the ball or hitting with a bat, it was such a hard task.

We found out he had visual processing issues and those exercises helped him be more visual.

Even today he can’t run and catch a ball or kick a soccer ball with full strength. But he can hit a ball and make baskets.

Yes, as husband and wife we both were successful in finding the cause for his problem and him successful in learning a skill.

He couldn’t make a jigsaw puzzle until he was 12 or 13. But now he can spend his time doing puzzles on his tablet.

Yes, the word success I always associate with my young man who had multiple struggles as a little boy. he continues to have struggles and every task we achieve is celebrated so much.

Learning to hit a ball with prism lens
Making lazy eigjht on a white board.

These pictures are more than 15 years old! We have come a long way.

We didn’t travel places or have vacations. We worked with him so much even my parents and my father in law were worried about us. I remember a time my mom got me a silk saree and I was not even interested in looking at it as I was involved in therapies. My father in law pointed that we need to spend more time with our younger child. Ha, memories but today looking back, we were young and could do all that. Can’t do what we did then now. 😊

9 responses to “Our success story”

  1. We too spent a lot of time with our son and I was worried that my daughter should not feel left out. Fortunately she did not have any problems. What does your younger son feel ?

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    1. My younger son doesn’t have any complaints. I think he became part of the process. When he was applying for colleges we made sure he doesn’t stay with us in the same city. He has been away for two years now and comes home specifically to spend time with his brother. I think the siblings do not get enough credit to what they go through. 💕 to your daughter.

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  2. What a beautiful and powerful definition of success. This is a testament to dedication, love, and the profound victory in every hard-won achievement. Your family’s story is the truest kind of success.

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  3. This is such a beautiful tale. I am glad your younger son doesn’t feel bad about not having gotten as much attention as his brother did. I am multiply-disabled (though only blindness was recognized when I was a child) and my sister is non-disabled. She often felt jealous of me because of everything my parents did for me and all the attention I got. Unfortunately, most of the attention I got was negative and my parents may’ve done slightly more for me in terms of creating accommodations for me in mainstream school but they didn’t see me for who I was at all.

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    1. I am sorry what you had to go through.💕💕💕

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      1. Thanks a lot for sympathizing.

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  4. Incredible success! Your hard work paid off – I love your dedication!

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    1. Thanks so much Wynne.

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