Special Mom’s blog

A good attitude is needed to live a good life. Yes, we may need money, friends family and all ,but without a good attitude one may not be happy.

I do write my blogs saying I am trying to live with positivity. I would say I play with the cards that are dealt with me on that particular.

I do have my moody days and I can be depressed, which I would call as a normal thing for any human being. That alone cannot be life. I do have my ambitions and expectations but if I fall short of it I try to move forward. It does not mean I do not have any goals or expectations. I do have and I do work for it. This has greatly helped me handle my special one.

There are days when he would have more anxiety or meltdowns. Those are the days I write off as our free days. Then the next day is a clean slate and we do start again. I have never given up on my special one. But at the same time, I do have realistic expectations with him. I am not a dreamer.

Many many years back I was subscribing to emails from flylady.net. She talks about how our perfectionism usually stops us from doing anything. So if you have a messy house, she says shine your sink. In fact when my boy was three, my house was so messy. Me and my husband did not know where to pick up or how to pick up. Her method of cleaning really helped us. Yes, one portion of the place is clean, you are happy and self satisfied. The positivity really overflows.

Signing off now, since my special one is having a tantrum. He has a baseball game in an hour. Even if he does not do good I am fine. It is not the end of the world. There are more games and it is not the end of the world today.

I hope I have convinced my readers that a good attitude is what needed for a good life. The rest follows that!