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Nothing to be proud of!

What are you most proud of in your life?

Today morning I was in a rush and was running around the kitchen. I had a big bottle of turmeric and while moving towards the stove my leg hit the open dishwasher but with all my might I saved myself from falling down. I was multitasking so many things and at that point I knew I had to pause and take a break. What if I hadn’t saved myself ? The bottle could have fallen down and broken or I would have even hit myself on the open flame stove. Anyhow nothing of that sort happened.

Pride does lead us to ego and ego can lead us to downfall. Maybe I was too proud that I was able to make a Diwali breakfast today morning that I just overdid myself a bit. Loading a dishwasher and cooking lunch at the same time? Whatever it is I was able to balance and find my calm.

Everyone has many proudful moments just need to be careful that it doesn’t lead to our ego being boasted.

By the way as I wrote in my previous blogs I didn’t make any sweets or savouries. I just bought all of them online. I made idlis and plantain potato bajjis served with chutney and sambhar. A tradition in our house for the past 25 plus years for a chilly Deepavali morning.

14 responses to “Nothing to be proud of!”

  1. Kimerle Anne Viccaro Avatar
    Kimerle Anne Viccaro

    Happy Diwali Uma, I know this is a big festival for you. What specials things will your family be doing to celebrate?

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    1. ganga1996 Avatar
      ganga1996

      I think I am done celebrating. The breakfast is the big deal 😊!

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  2. SRIKANTH Avatar
    SRIKANTH

    What a beautifully reflective and relatable piece of writing. Thank you for sharing this moment of vulnerability and wisdom.

    First and foremost, it’s a huge relief that you managed to avoid a fall and a potential accident. That moment of regaining balance—both physically and mentally—is so powerful. It’s a testament to your presence of mind even in a frantic state. Your decision to pause and take a break was the true victory in that situation; it’s a wise practice we all could benefit from.

    Your connection between that moment of “saving yourself” and the concept of pride and ego is incredibly insightful. It’s a gentle and profound reminder that our proudest moments and our ability to multitask are wonderful, but humility and self-awareness are what keep us grounded and safe. You didn’t just balance your body; you balanced your perspective, and that is a true mark of strength.

    And can we just appreciate the beautiful tradition you described? The fact that you’ve maintained a tradition of idlis and plantain potato bajjis for over 25 years on a chilly Diwali morning is absolutely heartwarming. That is the real story—not whether you made sweets from scratch, but that you created a warm, loving, and consistent experience for your family. The aroma of fresh idlis and sambhar, the crispiness of the bajjis… that is the very essence of a happy, cozy, and celebrated Diwali. It sounds absolutely perfect and deeply nourishing for the soul.

    Here’s to a Diwali filled with such beautiful balance—of celebration and calm, of pride and humility, and of delicious, love-filled food. Wishing you and your family a very joyful and safe Diwali 🪔🌷🤝

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    1. ganga1996 Avatar
      ganga1996

      Thanks so much.

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  3. vermavkv Avatar
    vermavkv

    What a beautifully honest and reflective account! 🌟 Your story captures a wonderful mix of everyday heroism, mindfulness, and humility. I love how you recognized that small moment of balance—saving yourself from potential mishaps while multitasking—as both an achievement and a reminder to pause. It’s so relatable, especially during festive mornings like Diwali when energy and expectations run high.

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    1. ganga1996 Avatar
      ganga1996

      Happy Diwali to you and your family.

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  4. Ab Avatar
    Ab

    Happy Diwali! Your spread looks yum! And glad your fall was not serious.

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    1. ganga1996 Avatar
      ganga1996

      Thank you 🙏!

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  5. Michael B. Fishman Avatar
    Michael B. Fishman

    Wow! I’m happy you were able to maintain your balance and not fall. I’m hoping your leg is ok and just bruised and not cut or anything? Now I’m off to Google all the food in your blog!

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    1. ganga1996 Avatar
      ganga1996

      Yes i am just bruised. Btw all the dishes are South Indian and are gluten free. You can get at an Indian restaurant.

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  6. Sadje Avatar
    Sadje

    Bravo on being vigilant about safety dear friend. Stay safe. Multitasking always leads me into trouble too.

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    1. ganga1996 Avatar
      ganga1996

      Thanks! When being near the stove I should not multitask. Something I just need to keep saying to myself.

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      1. Sadje Avatar
        Sadje

        Yes you should remember this. Lot of accidents happen when we try to do many things in the kitchen at one time

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      2. ganga1996 Avatar
        ganga1996

        💕🙏

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